Soul Sisters
The Five Sacred Qualities of a Woman's
Soul: A Workbook for Women
Someday
there will be girls and women whose name will no longer
mean the mere opposite of the male, but something in itself,
something that makes one think not of any complement and
limit, but only of life and reality: the female human
being." Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet
Soul
Sisters is a unique workbook to help women cultivate
their full potential through the lives and lessons of
the heroines of world spiritual traditions - both ancient
and modern.
In
this book, Peay draws on her unconventional life journey
as a seeker, a writer, and mother as well as the lives
of other women who have forged their own independent spiritual
path. The result is a rich narrative about how women today
are recombining, reimagining, and revisioning all the
assorted elements of their lives into a complex new mythology.
It is also a story of the friendships and enduring bonds
that exist between women: How they have uplifted, supported,
and inspired each other as they have sought to carve out
their own uniquely feminine path within - and without
- centuries-old religious traditions dominated by masculine
myths and images.
Filled with exercises, anecdotes, quotes, inspirational
meditations, and personal stories, Pythia Peay's Soul
Sisters shows how women today have courage, exemplify
faith, create beauty, show love, make magic, understand
friendship, and uphold the ideal of peace. In the same
way the Persian storyteller Sheherezade spun fables that
enraptured a vindictive and bitter king, transforming
him into a kind and caring husband, Peay shows how women's "soul sister" stories can play a role
in changing a depressed and lonely society into a more
peaceful and loving culture. She examines how the depth
and authenticity characterizing women's friendships are
a form of creative sistering that help each woman weave
soul into the fabric of her life. For whether joining
together to help a neighbor die, drawing around a close
friend suffering from her lover's suicide with prayers,
or simply hiking and talking about men, children, business,
politics, most girlfriends feel sustained by one another
in a wordless, implicit understanding of what it means
to be a woman.
Each
chapter shows how to cultivate the five "divine qualities":
Courage, Faith, Beauty, Love, and Magic. It contains a
gathering of traditional perspectives from the world's
wisdom traditions, and shows ways in which these qualities
can be used to enhance and strengthen the inner lives
of women today. However, just as ancient jewels are excavated,
polished, and recast in new settings, some of these practices
have been reconfigured in a way that addresses the needs
and problems of contemporary women. The new feminist mysticism
is not only about transcendent spirituality - it centers
instead on the small, daily rituals of cooking, housecleaning,
nurturing friendships, caring for pets, planting flowers
in springtime, shoveling snow in wintertime, having babies,
burying loved ones, making money, watching bodies change
over time, and discussing dreams, astrology, and relationships.
This feminine mysticism links women together in a potent
form of "earth magic" drawn from the wisdom
of the world's faiths.
As
Peay writes in her introduction, "The heart of Soul
Sisters is best expressed in a vision I had nearly
ten years ago while traveling through Sedona, Arizona,
with several women friends. In it, I saw all the women
goddesses, saints, and mystics that had existed throughout
time encircling the earth - Greek goddesses, Christian
mystics, Buddhist saints, and Sufi holy women all joining
hands in a ringing, singing necklace of love and support
for our fragile planet. The spirit of that vision, I hope,
will be the inspirational source illuminating this book."
Soul
Sisters offers an abundance of examples of different
female figures from the spiritual past and present who
have embodied these characteristics in a distinctly feminine
way. Through the road they have walked, readers can learn
to discover their own individual heart-path to these strengths.
Both an immensely practical workbook and an education
in spiritual ideas, Soul Sisters is a companion for a
lifetime.